Want away wife

[blueboy]

Hi

My wife told me 4 weeks ago she wanded to separate, no happy, loved me but wasn't in love with me anymore! Next day when pressed she stated she was having an EA but not a PA out of respect for me, but felt she could have a relationship with this person in the future!

What follow was a week from hell, live separate life's in he same house, she told parent and discussed it with another family member and did a complete turn around, asked me to move to a new house/area to start again, I agreed and we had 1 1/2 good weeks before she stated she had met OM again and had feeling for him!

That's was 1/2 week ago, she has spoke to parent again who have stated they are disgusted in her behaviour and cant believe she would do this to our 3 children and that I treat her like a princess!

She stated we have a great life, I'm a great husband, dad etc, but can't shake feelings for the OM 23 years her senior!! We continue to live together as she seem not able to tell me her plans, I have start the detaching process, she keeps asking me where I'm going, who with, can't understand why I don't want to talk all the time! She says she needs space and time however it pretty clear she is seeing OM.

I struggling with GAL as I'm so heart broken! Any advice would be good