What Should I be doing 3

[Coconut]

So yesterday, a fire call came in and WW asked if I mind if she reports, I said that's your decision and she went. She text me a few minutes later and said our truck isn't going out, he is not here, be home in a few. Today she got a call, didn't ask just went, and text that not enough people showed, truck not going out, be home soon...

sometimes she lets me know he's not here, and sometimes she doesn't say it, so I assume that means that he is there... Even if she stopped contact with him, how does she think it's not a 3 person marriage when she gives me updates on him? Grrrr... Not looking for response, just venting... Also not trying to read into her thoughts, just venting... I know, I know...