It is funny, but understanding that you're in her head, and she in yours (by your own doing) is the first step to getting her out.
My WW was looking forward to a nice family day for her bday. Instead, she's drinking alone with a friend, who may or may not be OM2. I'm making my mother and son and a great Sunday lunch. Relaxing and living my life.
When I get home I will lay down the rules of our separation. I earn double what she earns so I need to start taking back the power balance. She must know that I'm here, but not here for her.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.