Getting tired of this bullshit fast. When do I get to stop being the strong one and have her do some of the heavy lifting again....
Well, I don't blame you for being tired of it. What I don't understand is why you sit back and watch her as she entices others to have an A.
You told her an open M would not work for you and that you would have to S. However, she proceeds to do whatever she wants, while you continue sleeping with her and nonverbally condone an open MR. In the meantime, she continues to benefit from the M.
Sounds like a great setup for a woman who wants to be a girl gone wild. And face it, that's what she really wants to experience. She told you she wanted to be free to do what she wanted with other guys. It's not about OM #1, 2, or 3......she wants to be a girl gone wild! And frankly, I just don't see her being attracted to a guy who meekly waits, hoping she'll see what she has a home.
I am not sure how you see this as you being "strong". Neither do I understand why you think she will ever do any heavy lifting as long as she is engaging in this lifestyle.
What action does she see in her H that would cause her to see as strength and male confidence?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
