2T I am so sorry for your MIL (and FIL), I hope they are recovering well, it is such a same that due to the situation your H is not around for them as much. How does he feel about that?

Originally Posted By: 2Times2Many

If I refuse to fight, then the triangle is broken. The whole sitch doesn't give him the high he's seeking. I fell for that a couple of years ago and got all bent out of shape, but this time it was "Oh, okay." I think that might break the triangle?? Refusing to play the "game?" Lots to think about.
2T


That is an interesting theory, it could even be seen as a different 180? You not participating in his games I mean.

I hope you are having a lovely weekend.


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On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask "What if I fall?"
Oh but my darling,
What if you fly?”

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