returning Newbie????

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Well I'm confused. Had a great day with H. He took time off work to spend day with me but I had made plans that he didn't know about so I told him I couldn't change my plans. He came to the house and spent the day here anyways. Then we went to the movies,after the movie he said I'm so tired I'm going "home". Gives me kiss and tight hug. H said would be over in the morning before goes to work again I said I have plans. H was shocked, but now I see H didn't go "home" so I'm torn I need to detach but don't know how. I want to go to where H is and pound on the door and scream at him. How to let it go??