So, I guess my wife is getting dressed to go dancing. OM is out of town (at Disney Land with his kids), and her other "friend she kissed once" actually reported to jail today for his 2nd OWI so I'm pretty sure it's neither of them. She says she just wants to go and have fun; she "might call me to join her but she wants to check out the place first".

Getting tired of this bullshit fast. When do I get to stop being the strong one and have her do some of the heavy lifting again...


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11