Thx Sandi, I now see I was pushing too hard, I've made my stance clear, I will wait for her to approach me, in the meantime I will stay cordial, confident & cheerful (the three C's).
Now wait, don't go to the extreme other direction. I wasn't saying you were pushing her too hard. I was wanting you to be careful how you worded things........and not to see this one move (if she makes it) as some big committement to the M. Don't put words into her mouth. Don't take it to be more than what she is able to give at that time.
Gosh sakes, Coconut, it is hard to keep you in the center of the road. You want surve to the extreme right and then to the extreme left.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
