What Should I be doing 3

[Coconut]

One thing I notice with you nut is that you let every action or word of hers affect you. You over analyze everything she does trying to interpret what this phrase means or that look meant. You cannot give her that power. Like the above poster said. You gave her your stance, it was clear and concise, now sit back try and relax and don't fret about every little thing. Do things for yourself and who cares whether she notices or not. I know you struggle with detachment but you are worrying yourself sick over things you can't control. Relax...Breathe and smile, good luck brother

WSB, you hit the nail on the head, it's always been my way to analyze, analyze, analyze... Works well for my career but [censored] for relationships... I will say that I've felt very detached today, almost to the point of being discusted with her, but I'll take that over emotional wreck any day.