Hi SadHub. I see that we were both doing some delving into the history of our marriages today.

It's not a fun subject. I wonder when and if I will ever be able to look back on my memories with fondness. 22 wonderful years, 3 mostly-good years, and 5 months of hell. Still married, but not really. Still hopeful, but not optimistic. Still hurting, but working on healing.

How was your day?

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16