More detachment, less anxiety and the continued joy of limbo

[Painter]

I agree with Zues - it' s about doing all you can and know that you did. And do the work that will benefit you in any R.

I think the worst I see here, are those who come back after years and there's a second A... I'm not sure what I would have done then.

It seems many posters disappear after a while, so we don't know how they fare in the end? It would be nice to know.