Originally Posted By: Scotch
Everytime we talk, and I don't agree with what's she's saying, or ask her questions, she immediately gets emotional, says I'm trying to control her and walks away. How can I talk to her like this?


Why are you talking so much right now. Try drinking a STFU smoothie, listen to her IF and ONLY if she wants to talk. If she wants to sell the house, let her do everything. You don't need to come up with a list of what needs to be done or call an agent or anything else.

Take this time to work on you, focus on you and worry about you!!!! If she decides to sell the house then when you HAVE to sign something or look for your own place do so but DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES PUSH THESE CONVERSATIONS RIGHT NOW!

If you always want to bring up/talk about the future she will see that as pressure/controlling. Step back for a while.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction