Blu, I don't take what WW told BFF to seriously because WW also said it was only texting, no physical (so she's also lying to BFF). As for why rushing moving out, it's mostly for me, sure I'd like to end A and initiate NC, but I can't keep living like this, I'm having a hard time detaching so moving out would help me with that process. I am finding myself wondering what's going on every time she's at the station, and it's right next to my house, so evrytime I drive by I find myself looking for clues. At this point I need either NC or move out. The only problem is I work with WW, so having no contact with her is not really an option.
I think your right about both WP being pressured would be worse for my cause, specially since they would both be likely to retreat to fire house to get away, so I won't tell OMS..
But what about telling my S16 about the A, I want him to understand that I'm not abandoning him, but I had no choice due to the circumstances.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized