Thank you so much for you honesty, it was not harsh or taken the wrong way at all. It was what I needed to hear. We've only been married 4 years, but during those years I always put him first, so having all this time to myself and putting myself first is definitely a weird transition, but I am going to be willing to do it. I'm always nervous about meeting new people, but I will put myself out there so that I can become a stronger person. I know it has to be done. I cannot be this emotional wreck anymore. I also have to believe in the power of God,and that He plans what's best for us. Thank you for your reply.
