Yes, I was spinning too much. But I think that my response was good. This week was a roller-coaster but I'm trying to be consistent. I have to be.

I don't know what to do about tomorrow and her cake eating for her bday. I know I can't stop her actions. But when I disappoint her and do my own thing, she will attempt to hurt me in the best way. That will be that then and my ultimate boundary will be applied. I must focus on me. I know that.

So what do I want for the next two days... I want to validate my WW when I get home now. I want to go out and enjoy my evening with my brothers. I want to get a good sleep. I want to go to church. I do not want my WW to cake eat for her bday, even if that is the final nail in her wayward coffin. Am I on the right track?

I'm by my mother and only need to be home in an hour so need all the help I can get. Thx

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.