If she says NO, my plan is to tell the truth about A (but not details) to my mother, and my MIL. I want to tell my S16 and OM S, but I'm not sure if that is the right thing to do, what do you think?
Not sure if this is helpful or not, but I was told, with every decision/choice I have, think to yourself, 'will this hurt or help my eventual target destination?'
I also thought about telling OM's S about the EA I found on W's phone, but came to the conclusion that this could actually work against me, and draw them closer. Each situation is probably different, and telling OM's S might actually work in some cases, but I think it most of the time would draw the two WW/WH closer to one another, as now they are under attack by both of their Spouses.
I'm new here, so take this advice lightly and hope you get a good answer here because I'm wondering the same thing.
