Grl, I don't think its' necessarily unhealthy to send pics of kid to each other. I do it. I sent prom pics of D18 to Mr P since he wasn't there to see it. He appreciated it. Neither of us thought it was sad or manipulative in any way. You have to stop thinking like that, seriously, Grl. Be the parents that kid needs and let the rest go. (((Grl)))
