I believe in M truly I do, you can never stop another from leaving and in order to protect yourself you may have to D.
In my case my M was so dysfunctional that there was a danger of physical harm. Hanging on in order to stay M isn't great if one of the pair ends up harmed and the other prosecuted.
Some men and women shouldn't be M, and they M anyway. Some shouldn't be parents and they do that and abandon their children.
So I do believe in M, my first H died, my second D me for reasons of exploring his sexual needs and H3 the less said really.
If H3 had worked on his abuse then yes I would have stayed M, I have gone passed that point and can no longer stay where I will be harmed.
I am in no place to move on either into a new R, so I stay single.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW