I would say that Cristy, gave you the idea to follow. Heed her advice as it may just be that simple.
Do what you know to be right. Do not do what your feelings say. Following feelings is a slippery slope. Doing what you know and believe in, is what will bring success.
You say you are ready for her to go, but there are still hints in your posts that you are not. More detachment is still needed. I would encourage that you list your principles and then read them often. Then act on them no matter what. This will help you avoid following the directions of your feelings. You know Dbing is counterintuitive, and it is the only way to become the person only a fool would leave.
Have a good evening my friend
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
