Patience sure is tough. H sounds happy when calls to let me know on way home. Like things are fine, it hurts. I will work more on getting out to run/bike/golf and not sitting around each time with him. We spent most of our time together but when we did our own thing, I preferred to use my time to be by myself. The couple times I have been out, I will say briefly what doing (going to golf) and maybe he assumes if on a week day I'm with other people.