Acc. When I pull up the forum board and I see that you posted on my thread I start to cringe. I know I'm about to get hit with the words i need to hear. Lol You are right. I'm scared. I'm definitely scared of the unknown regardless. But I'm going along as confidentially as I can. Ive had a lot of people tell me don't leave the house regardless. Including my DB coach. To just back off and give her the space she needs. To treat her like a friend for now and to not bring up any R talk, gifts, compliments, etc Which is very difficult to do living under the same roof. It's the reason I would want to move out. Problem is where do I go for that short of a period? I don't have family members here. All my friends here are married with kids. I wouldn't want to impose. I don't want to sign a 6 month lease on an apartment I want my son to be able to see me everyday It's important to me So I guess I'm just trying to figure out how to do this I can't thank you enough for all your input
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it