I know you think the timing is bad, but unfortunately the timing is *never* good. There will always be many excuses to "just go one more day" as things are versus shaking things up.
It's a "chips in the middle" move, but if you don't play you can't win.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015