Husband Walked Out- Need Support!

[LiM]

Hi LandC,

I posted an update in my thread this afternoon. Things are going well for us. We continue to piece our M back together. Theres lots of hurt that needs to heal but we are moving in the right direction and frankly, we are more emotionally connected now than we've probably ever been. She's been sleeping in our house for the past week and we're moving all her stuff back next week.

I've been following your sitch even though I havent been posting.
I'm glad you are getting to talk to you husband for the first time after many weeks.
I do have to say that based on what he has said to you that I feel like he may be coming back because it is what is easy for him; that he's cake eating. I feel like he wants to move back because it will be financially easier and you guys can be friends. Is that what you want? A friend? Or do you want your husband back?

I agree that its important not to be making any demands right now. But boundaries are different. Boundaries on limitations on how you are willing to be treated. As a wife and as a person. You deserved to be treated with respect and to not be taken advantage of. These are conditions that you would place on anyone; not just your H.
Let us know how your conversation goes.