Hi LiM, What happened to you? where are you? what's going on? Well, I am meeting with my H tomorrow at a public place/coffee shop. I invited him to come out to our house as I knew I would feel most calm etc. NOT in a public place and thought he'd want to see our dog, but he suggested a cafe. Once he did I realized I had to do it 'his way' but suggested one I like better where I will be more likely to be calm/cool/collected! We are meeting to discuss the idea of sharing our property/house/guest house. I plan to have that be the ONLY topic of conversation and to do mostly listening and little talking. Any advice on best practices ??? I keep re-reading parts of the DR book and how she says that when M is this fragile the LBS has no room for making demands of any sort. But does that mean that I have no room for having SOME boundaries or logistical requests??? I'm a bit confused by this bit. Look forward to hearing how it's going with you? Did you allow your W to move back in? THANKS
