That is so good what you are doing with the charity food drop. You are an amazing person.
Sorry to hear about kid, they are very intuitive, especially where their mami's are involved I think. When h is frosty with me, even my toddler picks up on it and won't go near him. Breaks my heart in a way. But then I see that as I am a lioness that needs to protect my cub.
I think it's good that you did speak to xh, you are both parents even if he is a little lax in responsibility, you both need to speak about your child's wellbeing.
It's hard on you that you have to be the big person all the time, but I get a strong sense of strength from you. You're an amazing woman. And I send huge hugs to my beautiful db soul sister!
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16