Acc as much as I want to do that I must admit I'm afraid to do that for my 6 year old. W is starting paramedic school next week and I work in car business. To be separate right now would be extremely tough on not just us, but especially him
My goal and maybe you can give me some ideas as well, is to be gone when she is at the house. This will actually be easier starting next week when she starts school as well.
For instance I'm about to get off work. Normally I would go home cook dinner for us and hang out with her, etc
Instead I'm going to meet up with a friend to shoot pool for a few hours
I completely understand what you are saying, but I just think it would be really difficult at the moment. So my goal is to give her all the space I can
I take my son out as much as I can as well
Also, she texts me stuff troughout the day.
Little jokes hear and there as well just what's going on troughout the day
How would you handle this?


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it