I agree with dream on the projection thing. My doctor (M.D.) introduced me to projection (it was after the prostate exam, not during).
I told my doctor that after I'd gotten a new ATM card my wife transferred a bunch of money from our joint account to a newly created personal account. I asked her why she did that and she said that she was afraid I'd use my ATM card to empty our joint account. Huh? If I wanted to empty the account, I'd do it electronically. Using the ATM card would be ridiculous.
My doctor said, "She's projecting; that's what she's thinking about doing." Oh! It's all part of the affair-fog cocktail.
