Aftermath

[TimR]

Journaling

I have not written in a while which is becoming more and more frequent... I think that is a good thing.

So we went to nationals. I picked up WW and S13's pedo dad came out to greet me. Made some comment about appreciating everything I do for sS13 and no hard feelings. I wanted to say listen you can have her, enjoy just leave S13 alone. But I bit my tongue.

On the way down we talked a bit. She asked about my gym and then I think to get a rise out of me talked about the skimpy clothes she wears to the gym. I could have cared less. Somewhat funny somewhat sad thing is as she told me about it, I asked what a certain type of shirt was and she explained a half shirt, S13 piped up saying "you know what all the wh0res wear." Sad to see he has so little respect left for his mother. As we were getting close after a 5 hour drive WW was talking about where to eat after weigh ins.

Checked into the room and after a bit I said lets get going to weigh ins. WW made no effort to get up and I asked are you ready. She responded she never goes to weigh ins why start now. I responded about getting her pass to get in. Then begrudgingly she asked how much they were. As she handed me the cash to get hers she made the comment to S13 "Look at SBH making me pay for my own stuff." S13 replied "well you aren't together."

After weigh ins, S13 and I went back to the room. I told WW our plans for dinner and she decided not to go. She actually did not eat dinner or anything that I saw the entire weekend. I think she really planned on me paying for everything and did not bring any money. Well not my problem.

S13 did not do as well as I thought he would but I kinda think it was all the stress in the room. WW slept on the chair because S13 would not allow her to sleep in his bed and there was no way she was going to sleep in my bed.

The way home was uneventful. We talked a bit. We compared stories of what friends told each of us about the other. Most of which did not match. She told me about OM2, Idk why cause she is on to OM3 and problem she is having with S16. I told her about GF and work.

After the weekend S13 got in trouble in school and WW would not allow him to go to the movies with me as planned. While it hurt me cause she knew we planned it on the way home, he also has to learn to behave properly. Later on I got a text from S13 that his bio-dad wants to take him to that movie and he doesn't want to go with him, he wants to go with me. I told him then he would have to explain that to his bio-dad and mom. He said he was going to.

I do not know whether he did or not.

Things with GF are going very well. We continue to be very open and honest with each other. She has introduced me to her family which I know was a huge step for her, especially her kids (who already knew me from coaching). We still run together and tomorrow I will be doing my first 5k. I do have a concern that I feel like I am putting back on some weight that I lost. So I guess when it finally stops raining here I need to get out and do a lot more cardio.

Well I guess that is it... all caught up.