The don't believe what they say also counts when they spew acid at you.
I needed a reminder of that. If there's one thing I'm sure of, it's that right now she is even more mentally and emotionally [censored] up than I am.
Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11