No movement on D. She is refusing to sign off on finance agreement set up over a month ago because she is getting non legal advice. She says one thing then another and on and on and on. It is creating a limbo for me that is wearing me out. She wants to leave and every day she adds to her anger and resentment because she can't make a decision and accept what she has chosen. She continues to speak with folks that throw gas on the fire and it is just making me crazy. I know it is her circus, but I am somehow trapped in her tent and I can't get out.
Hang in there. At least you're not having to basically provide for your W's entire upkeep like me. What's worse for me is she's using it to battle against me. I'm not sure why your W does not want to use her L? Negotiating these things between you directly will just make it even more difficult, as I've found out myself.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
