returning Newbie????

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i am posting again. i was on this wonderful site about 9 years ago (maybe 10). I did post over in MLC, but I don't think I belong there this time. So where do i belong?
Story:
We have been married for almost 17 years, we have been together for 19 years, we have 2 children (18 & 16), and we have been thru this before. In the past I thought it was MLC, but now i know as well as himself that his an addict, alcholic. H did go thru an inpatient treatment for this. That was this past October (2015). Things were good when he came out sober. H is drinking again and our life is back to I don't know if ILY, I can't see this working, etc. We are seeing a Counselor together, but I am not sure she is the best, we started seeing this Counselor for help with our 18 yr old to help figure out to co parent her as she is becoming uncontrollable. Then from there things have slid into counselling for us. The Counselor is not a marriage Counselor or even an Addict Counselor, so not sure if the advise/help she is giving is going to help. This is why i turn back to this wonderful support system. I am going to be seeing a Coach and working on myself.

Please help me know if this is the correct place. I am a return newbie. I am aware of a lot of things, but this time around we know it is due to alcoholism so its different.