I am in your boat no EA that was reciprocated (guy is gay) and no PA. But in her heart she held a dream of OM.
Sandi used to tell me that W was WW because how how her heart is hardened ect. Very hard and confusing on what to do with me seeing a WAW and WW tendencies. You almost have to pick one mode of going forward and stick with it. I kept flip flopping between the two ways to DB (WAW or WW). It was very confusing to W.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016