Breathe. Be aware of what buttons she is pushing. Take some time to separate the emotions from the truth, and then you can respond or follow up as you know is true and right. We have all been connected to our S for so long that we want to please them, avoid angering them, and help them. But now is the time to recognize the truths and proceed. As I recently received some great advice, step back and imagine how you would react to a child throwing a tantrum.
I feel your pain, anxiety and conflicts of thought as I am experiencing the same. Hang in there, the truth will set you free, as no matter what you do now, it will not change her reactions or feelings, so hang in there.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
