Expect anything from her. I rather doubt it will be a solid commitment. At best, she may try to buy some time. But, one never knows. Usually, the WW will waver back & forth. Your job is stand firm and not let down.
Yes, the NC is for both of you. It gives you some peace of mind, and rebuilds the trust. It is essential for her, in order to withdraw from the A. And.........she will experience withdrawals, once the NC is underway. That is a critical time period.
Maybe it took her rejection of your sexual advances to make up your mind. FWIW, you just shoot yourself in the foot when you try it before she's over OM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
