Not sure if you're going to get an answer, man. Most People don't stick around long enough to let us know how things turned out.
I will say this, though:
If you follow the program, regardless of what happens with your M, you will come out of this a stronger person. You'll be ready to take on life head-on and be ready for your next successful R, whether that be with your current spouse or someone new.
I want to let you know, though, that there are many DBers that have made it to the piecing level. LiM, NYgal and I would all fall under that heading, but there are countless others that have come and gone.
There are DBers that I would consider successful that are not, or not right now, in relationships with their WWs or WAWs or Hs.
Trumpet, Azzork, and TimR would all be examples of people who have followed the program and have become the men they want to be.
