Hey I agree with courses before marriage and at the start of the MR. We did have church classes but we both just brushed them off. Couldn't see the value in them at the time.

There are skills that need to be learned. I did not know that at the time. I think most people just go in to MR blind and hope for the best. I know I did.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016