Ok. So I just read the some stuff on the pursuer and distancer. I realize now I have definitely continued in many ways not even realizing it. This is the struggle I am having right now especially living together. Some of W problems was that I didn't do my share around the house and didn't support her. So how do balance this yet at the same time showing her that I'm doing my part and wanting to support her as well?
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it