Sunny,

Maybe I should have been more clear, I think more time needs to be added for the cool down period and that counseling should be a requirement. That may or may not change the R of a couple. At least it would be equal ground to say that both sides could say they did everything they could to save the M.

More importantly, I feel that prior to getting into an M, a couple should go through multiple courses and have counseling to ensure they understand how to communicate. Whether that training is heard by both sides is on each individual.

My point is I would not want to force anyone to stay in an M they are not happy with but I believe that education of communication and the results of a D should be understood by both H & W.


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...