Yes, I think Raliced and Life's Twists make good points. Maybe it's more a case of separating out these two aspects:
- Concern for your children and arrangements relating to their living circumstances
- Your own feelings (unrelated to the kids) about any steps she may be taking
I think asking questions motivated by the first aspect is fine and of course you want to understand how any plans may affect your children. As Raliced said, whether you'll get a straight response is another matter.
Glad to hear things are going well with your startup
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
