What do you mean by "cling on"?
I am working on that now. It's a trust thing. She cheated on me 3 years ago and she never really took ownership of that. For me it has caused a lot of trust issues which as a result has caused me to question her a lot. Looking for that reassurance that she is "mine"
That's the controlling side of me that I'm really focusing on letting go


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it