I hear you. I feel the same way you do! I have no hope that a second marriage will work. I am at the point where I am seriously considering getting involved in a coalition that wants to drive change in divorce laws. These states that have no fault laws make it so easy for people to get out of their MR. This is not fair to the family unit. There is always a solution to every problem and I have kept that motto with me at work and family life. I feel this is an optimistic outlook for me, but when feelings come into play with a D in process the nice spouse gets the short end of the stick. My heart breaks for the LBS.
Forgiveness is important to me and I wish that my WW would forgive. I have little hope that she ever will. It makes me sad that I will have to spend the rest of my life dealing with an unreasonable person that does not respect me and the sanctity of marriage.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
