One of the things that I have noticed w/the MLCer is that they say that they want to work on the relationship/marriage, but in reality, they don't. My xh said the same thing and even went as far as telling his co-workers that we were working on the marriage and yet, he was doing his own thing and not focusing on what needed to be worked on. So, take what he says w/a grain of salt and don't expect him to actually be working on marriage in the same way that you are and would expect a normal person to do.
Continue as you have been and keep the focus on you. If he truly wants to work on the marriage and do it the proper way, you'll know when he's serious about it. Until then...keep your expectations at zero.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
