198127, tell her you're glad she's interested in counseling -- ask her why she wants to do that? What is she trying to achieve?

Then listen to what she says, don't engage, don't argue, just take it in, then tell her you need some time to think about it.

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015