If she has physical sex with another person. I know that you just stated that the EA is worse and that we LBHs fob it off, but thats because we see the body as sacred. The mind is not...
I don't think I said it was worse, but for a female it can be just as serious, b/c of how the woman's emotions are wired within her. Most men tend to look at a PA as cheating, and do not place as much emphasis on an affair of the heart.
Don't misunderstand. It tears a woman apart to know her H has been physical with another woman. I'm just trying to let you know that EA's are serious to women (even though she lies and says they are just friends and it means nothing).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
