I get the anger - I really do. It's upsetting when you feel like the person you are co-parenting with isn't giving you the straight scoop, isn't it? My XH constantly will change his schedule with some long, complicated, lie about work and it always bugs me. Why lie at this point? After all, I'll take the kids every extra second I can get.
I'll disagree a bit with Sotto. These are the questions you said you think you should ask
I believe these are the questions I need her to answer: - address of the house? - is she buying it on her own? - is she getting a new job? - will he be living there?
I think those are all fair game except the one about if she is buying it on her own - her finances are her own - but obviously the exact location, who will be living there and her work hours affect your kids a great deal and are therefore your business as a parent. My XH has extended me no courtesy whatsoever, but I would still let him know if I was moving someone in with the kids (ain't gonna happen, but still). That being said - I wouldn't be surprised if she is still evasive about the whole thing - so be prepared....
