Good for you coconut!!! I know that had to be so difficult. But that is your boundary and you have to set it. There is no way for your marriage to move forward with a third person in the picture Hang in there! Continue to do things for you and your S It's extremely painful and hard. I understand completely I was where you are as well before But if you focus and yourself and S it will make it easier
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it