Summary of last thread:
M'd 21 years
S11 D9
10/15 W filed OFP against me, in place for 1 year
12/15 I started D process
I offered MC repeatedly
W randomly voiced an interest in R from BD/OFP to 02/16
02/16 W decided not interested, I filed D
05/16 D should be finalized soon
W has history of abuse in her past
W projecting her past onto me
W stuck with "child mentality"
I "rescued" her
Codependence both ways

I am having a he// of a time moving on, really stuck and need to get unstuck.