Actually funny you responded first. I think subconsciously the stuff you encountered a couple days ago triggered me to try to open up a little at the teacher's conference with my wife. THANKS... LOL... you were spot on when you said it's a lot easier to judge this stuff from the outside.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015