H decided to play golf last night with guys from work. He did call me to ask me if we had plans before he committed so that is positive. I was upset he chose to play because he says he wants to work on things but yet isn't home to do so. I didn't act mad at all. We are supposed to go out tonight and I am hoping he doesn't call and say he is going out with guys from work first. If he does, I may pass on our date. I don't want to feel like I am second.