Did you really think you were going to find something inappropriate on her phone after she spent the entire night with OM? My ex was pretty good about deleting anything he didn't want me to read. And when he spent hours of the night with OW, they talked to each other (among other things), they didn't text each other...
Whether or not things work out with your marriage, your goals should be the same. Detach. GAL. Focus on yourself. The roller coaster ride gets smoother as you get in control of yourself.
Originally Posted By: DDJ
I am trying hard on complimenting and noticing the small things she does.